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Looking for a good place to hook up girls!!!???

Discussion in 'Restaurants, Clubs & Bars' started by wolfy, Jul 19, 2011.

  1. wolfy

    wolfy TAG Member

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    I'll be going to Tokyo soon, and need some help to where there might be good places/ bars to hook up girls?

    Sorry for the short post, hope ppl can be of some help. Thank you.

    :)
     
  2. TKO65

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    If you can't speak Japanese, start with Roppongi. The quality is hit and miss but it's worth a start. Otherwise, try some of the coffee shops in the areas where foreigners are more common.

    Watch out for the bar "Motown" - there are real girls and then there are the not-so-real girls. Check carefully.
     
  3. TKO65

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    One other thing...

    The classifieds in Metropolis (magazine or online) is also a great way to make new friends and meet some girls too. I've had some pure gold hits there and then a few copper ones... but yeah, worth a shot.
     
  4. wolfy

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    Thanks a lot mate. I"ll try my best. As far as hooking up, I dearly mean to get laid somehow hehe. But thank you.

    Regards,
     
  5. Belmar

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    Could you suggest any specific places in Roppongi? Particularly places that don't cost a day's wages to get in. Also, if you know of anyplace where a 45 year old man who has thinned out up top won't be totally out of place... I'd appreciate it!
    Thanks...
     
  6. Nemics

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    To be honest, I would also like to know hoo-up place in Roppongi. The last times I have been there e.g. Motown have been awful. 90% men and some real ugly girls plus the usual transsexuals. Even Gas-Panic was empty. Where did they all go?
     
  7. oLUXo

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    I am in Tokyo now and I am looking for a place that is easy to pick up girls. Any hot spots to look? :confused:
     
  8. DrmWvr101

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    The party starts late in Roppongi - after 10:00 or 11:00 on Friday and Saturday nights things will really start moving.

    Hostess Bars - They're everywhere in the Roppongi Crossing area. Every tout on the street will try to get you into his bar. They will often offer you a free drink to get you in. Once inside, you will be the object of the affection of one or more ladies, but it comes at a steep price. The ladies work on commission; they get paid a percentage of every overpriced drink or bottle of wine. If you're particularly unlucky, you may be lured into a private dance room - alarm bells should be going off in your head. They charge by the song AND the drink/bottle. Many of the ladies are true professionals. Unless you're wealthy, have a bottomless expense account or want to destroy your credit card(s) you should avoid these places.

    Motown House, Geronimos, Mogambo and Gas Panic - The first three cater to the English speaking expatriate crowd. All three are likely to be lively on a weekend night. You will find a variety of people - groups who are there together and have no interest in others, groups and individuals on the prowl, etc. Again, many of the ladies are true professionals; you may find a non-profit in there, but don't bet the farm on it. As previously mentioned, be a discerning shopper; there are many choices, especially at Motown House. Whether you do or don't want nuts with that, you will want to check the package before ordering take out.

    Commission Bars - Be on the lookout for some of the professionals. They often invite you to another favorite bar of theirs. These will often be commission bars where the ladies get paid by the drink/bottle that they get you to buy. The tip off will be the prices of drinks and bottles are very high compared to "normal" bars. The alarm bells should be going off anytime a drink is JPY 3,000+ or a bottle is JPY 20,000+. Again, unless money is no object, politely excuse yourself and make a break for the door.

    All information shared in this message is strictly theoretical; it hasn't been earned through bitter experience . . .
     
  9. sterval2x

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    Hey guys! I will be visiting Tokyo for the 1st time and I could really use your honest opinion on Gaspanic before possibly wasting my time there! LOTS of articles and posts about this place keep mentioning that there are many Japanese girls there looking to hook-up with foreigners. At the same time, many of these same posters say that it's a bad place to go to, because the girls are on the slutty side. What's the deal guys, are they like freelance prostitutes or maybe just haters posting? I don't understand why someone would go to a club and complain if it is really full of J-girls looking to score -most men don't go to clubs just to dance!- so why all the hate about Gaspanic? It sounds more like paradise to me than anything! Am I missing something?
     
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  10. Kias

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    Quite simply, those of us that live here or otherwise visit often understand the routine.

    Gaspanic - It's a great place to start if you are new to Tokyo. However, the girls that go there are usually the same girls we see there every weekend. They come, find what they want and then come back again for the same routine. Thus, the quality of choices is not that great if you go back repeatedly over any amount of time.

    For people that live here and have done so for a number of years, Gaspanic is bottom of the barrel. It's hard to meet someone new there. I now prefer some of the Japanese bars in Shibuya and Shinjuku, but my wants and needs have changed. I'm looking for good conversation and a deeper connection. If I were 20-25 years old again, I'd hit up places like Gaspanic for some easy action.

    If you're in Tokyo for any length of time, you would come to the same realization. To be fair, there are also man-whores that show up to. The same guys showing up week after week, just there to fish out any new flesh that shows up.

    Good luck.
     
  11. sterval2x

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    Thank you for your honest answer Kias, definitely helps to sense how this place is :) The reputation of the girls won't matter much to me in the context of my visit, but I can only assume there aren't enough of them to satisfy all the male clientele looking for the same thing! What's the ratio like and what are the chances of bringing home a girl there on the same night (a japanese, non pro & not too ugly prefered ;))?
     
  12. Kias

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    The ratio varies from night to night...

    The party usually gets started around 10-11pm and then people are there for the night. People will hang out until the trains start running again. The first two rounds will go by quickly and those on their game will get theirs and be out the door in a few hours. At the end, there is always a few hanging on for the last hope.

    Overall, you have to initiate and take the lead if you want results. There seem to be always more guys than girls, so don't stand around waiting.

    ID'ing a non-pro can be tricky. If it feels 'too easy' then, it probably is and you'll be in for a surprise. Ugly is subjective, depends on your tastes and what's out there.

    I'd have to ask some of the younger guys I know where they are hanging out these days. I know it's usually Roppongi though...
     
  13. sterval2x

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    Thanks again for the valuable info! I will try to be on top of my game if I hit this infamous place!
     
  14. Tengu

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    I like the HUB in Roppongi. They have happy hour and a lot of ladies pop in and out of there before or after clubbing. One big drawback is the competition. It's a popular watering hole for fat cats working in the area. Oh, and the girls speak English too well.
     
  15. Solong

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    Tokyo is NOT as lively or as cool as it used to be. The policies of the ultra-nationalist governor and politicians, who have been anti-foreigner and racist, has eliminated a lot of Tokyo's once international flavor. Combined with the Fukushima incident and how overly expensive Tokyo is, many foreigners go to other countries. Thailand, Singapore, and even Korea are all cheaper and more fun. Bangkok is way more international, fun, and less expensive.

    Roppongi is mostly full of Japanese. Many Japanese women come in groups of 2, 3, and even 5. They vow to NOT have sex and cock block each other like lesbians. In fact, a lot of Japanese women these days can often be confused with being lesbians. Where years ago, Japanese women were more into men. These days, a lot of Japanese women chase after skinny gay guys, with nutty dyed hairdos.

    Many of the Japanese guys will also be hating and back stabbing any foreign guys they see talking to Japanese women. It's that bad.

    Anybody that knew Tokyo and Japan 10 years ago, know how horrible and no fun Roppongi often is now.

    Roppongi just has a reputation from years ago. These days, it's not much and even a rip off.

    The people who can stand Tokyo, are those that never seen it or those that are hardcore into Japan and learning Japanese. Trust me, huge difference between 10 years ago and now.
     
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  16. fireman

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    I think it's pretty safe to say that, for the most part, women do not go to clubs in Roppongi unless they are trying to meet men and/or get laid.

    IME, most of this type of "cock blocking" takes place because either (a) girl A doesn't want to go home alone while girl B is with a guy, (b) girl A doesn't want to leave girl B alone in the club while she goes off with a guy, or (c) a plastered girl A is about to stumble out with a creepy guy and girl B doesn't want her friend to be raped. Not many women go out on their own in this town -- Tokyo is very safe as far as most crimes go, but there are a lot of perverts around and women are justifiably paranoid. So it's always best to go out with a wingman or two. That gives you the option to scout out attractive groups and "divide and conquer," and also makes you seem less sketchy than if you are out there on your own.
     
  17. toz

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    I live very close to Roppongi, so I know the area well.
    I suggest going to Mid-town to some of the nicer bars there. There is a new bar at Roppongi Crossing that gets pretty good action. I have chatted up a few chicks there recently and got some phone numbers.

    Overall, I also generally avoid Roppongi -- unless it is late and I am on the way home. The clubs are good fun -- but I can't stay out until the sun rises anymore -- too old for that.

    I think there is better quality to be found in Nishi Azabu and the like, but don't expect 500 yen drinks.
     
  18. Solong

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    @fireman

    Tokyo clubs are NO LONGER any good. The governor of Tokyo and right wing ultra-nationalistic groups have saturated the media and Japanese minds with anti-foreigner propaganda for the last 12 years, when they came into office. The change didn't happen immediately, but took about 4 years and has done damage the last 8 years. Tokyo has been going DOWNWARD as a party place the last 6 years. The higher yen and Fukushima has speeded up the process.

    Not a conspiracy theory, check out- Gaijin Hanzai Ura File from 2007.

    http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kyōgaku_no_Gaijin_Hanzai_Ura_File_–_Gaijin_Hanzai_Hakusho_2007

    http://www.debito.org/?p=192

    This was part of a well funded and CONTINUAL hate campaign against foreigners by various right wing xenophobic groups. This included immigration enforcement policies, books, TV shows, etc...

    These racist Japanese groups and propaganda campaigns specifically targeted places like Roppongi, Shibuya, and any place else foreigners and tourists were likely to go.

    Most Tokyo clubs are about RIPPING you off for MONEY and entertainment. They will even set you up with FAKE single women that are like bar hostesses that push you to BUY DRINKS.

    For many Japanese, they are places to TAKE a date or friends TO, NOT to meet new people.

    For most Japanese, Roppongi and Shibuya are places to socialize, often in all Japanese ONLY groups. The foreign music and seeing the occasional foreigner is for ENTERTAINMENT.

    They see foreigners talking to a group of Japanese as entertainment. Like CLOWNS at the circus. The clubs see you as a SUCKER (kamo) to victimize for money.

    8 years and more ago, some SINGLE Japanese women USED to come to Tokyo clubs and bars to meet guys for sex. NO LONGER. Now, Japanese women come in GROUPS and cock-block any guys that approach and cling to each other like lesbians. Especially foreign guys. And Japanese guys are well known to throw hater salt behind your back by saying odd things to scare Japanese women from talking to foreigners.

    You might pull a Japanese woman away from a group, but that will often be LUCKY LOTTO. And how much did you spend traveling to and drinking at that club or bar? Maybe it would be cheaper to buy a BJ or sex from a prostitute.

    Having a wingman, doesn't help much, because you are dealing with a group dynamic. Maybe he likes the girl you are talking to, there's jealousy and selfishness, and her girlfriend can cock-block BOTH of you. So, you are just making trying to meet women more complex and need more complex coordinating and planning.

    Most foreign guys will ONLY come away with a phone number or email. Many Japanese women are pushed to NOT reply or respond to any foreign guy. This is pushed heavily by xenophobic and racist Japanese and groups. They are told to play games with you and cheat you.

    These days, a lot of single Japanese women that want to meet for sex, use the INTERNET for pickup. This technique allows them to HIDE what they doing from family, friends, and co-workers. This way of hiding what she really does is called Honne and Tatemae in Japan

    In the old days, she would go to a club or bar FAR from her house (ex- 20 minute train ride away), these days the women shop men like fashion accessories on the Internet.

    You are better off meeting Japanese women on the street, coffee shop, train, Tsutaya video store, etc... That is where SINGLE Japanese are at, NOT the clubs.

    Going to clubs and bars in Tokyo is usually a waste of time and money. But fine, don't believe me. Go to places like Motown, Gas Panic, or any other crappy club in Roppongi and Shibuya, etc... Waste $50/$100 dollars or 5,000 to 10,000 yen on drinks. The club staff is laughing at you and that group of Japanese in the corner is watching and laughing at you too.

    The Tokyo club scene is DEAD. It died secretly years ago. Now it's not about fun sex or meeting new people, it's all about ripping you off for money.
     
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  19. PussyPumpa357

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    i wonder what bars you have been going to because i frequently go to Roppo and meet woman and end up having sex with them, maybe not the same night but generally shortly thereafter and some the same night. I would say its Hit or Miss but not never, and if people laughing at you bothered me then hell i would have just stayed home forever.
     
  20. Onbail

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    Where's roppo?